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Dating Rule #37 : Here Are Three Reasons You Should Read This Post.

3 Reasons You Should Read This Post

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1) It will change your dating life completely.

2) It will improve your dating game tremendously.

3) You’ll find that you get your way with people a lot more often.

Now, why do i give 3 reasons and not 10, or 1? It’s really simple actually, and there’s a psychological reason behind it all that would absolutely astound you.

Life Comes In Threes

Everything in life comes in threes, if you notice. There is <the trinity (for Christians)>,

<1, 2, 3, Go> ,

<Ready(1), Set(2), Go(3)> ,

<Red(1), Orange(2) and Green(3) at traffic lights>,

<Beginning(1), Middle(2) and End(3)>,

<Famous trilogies> and

<Bronze(1), Silver(2) and Gold(3) medalists>.

A lot of what life throws at you are grouped into threes, and thus, this results in us subconsciously feeling that everything that comes in threes would feel “right”. When something comes in twos, it feels like it’s “1 short” and when it comes in fours, it feels like it’s “1 too many”. So the perfect number? 3.

How Can This Help My Dating Game?

This can help your dating game in one simple way : To persuade someone you’re in the right by giving them 3 reasons. This is because when you give 3 reasons, it feels “just right” to the other person, and increases your chances hugely.

This can come in the form of persuading a girl and giving her 3 reasons why she should go out with you (compared to the 100 reasons i’m pretty sure you’ve have planned out already), to giving your girlfriend 3 reasons why you should stay at home for the huge soccer match (again, i know you’ve came out with a 101 reasons, but 3 would be best here).

You can also check out this article on 3 ways to tell if your dinner date is going right.

Happy No-More-Brainstorming!

Yup! For all you people out there who hate brain storming for  100 reasons to convince someone, congratulations! All you have to do now is to present 3 good reasons and you’ll increase your chances dramatically (: Godspeed on your quests in convincing people you’re right my friends (: You’re welcomed to ask any questions you might have -grins.

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Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

Dating Rule #36 : How Can One Hand Gesture Land You A Date?

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There’s a simple hand gesture that can land you a date (no, not the one above), or even win you a quarrel with your loved one. Extremely effective and operates under the human subconscious so they’ll never ever know what hit them. What is this wonderful hand gesture, you ask? Well, it’s simple (:

No, Not Strangulation (No doubt that would definitely help you win a quarrel).

I call this the left to right rule. If you noticed, most of the things we do are from left to right, reading is from left to right, writing is from left to right and you start from flipping from the left of the book to it’s right. With this idea that left to right feels correct in our life because we are so exposed to it and accustomed to it, we can use this hugely to our advantage. Research too, has proven, that there are countless number of ways to exploit this built-in behavioral acceptances.

How Now Brown Cow?
Simple make hand gestures that appear left to right to the person you’re talking to. For example, if you’re facing someone, making hand gestures from right to left would seem like it’s left to right for him. With your hands constantly doing this (don’t overdo it though!), it greatly increases your chances in the person you’re talking to to accept your approaches, whether for a date or you pleading your innocence in a quarrel.

So start practicing making hand gestures that appears left to right to the person you’re talkin to. Remember the famous saying by Ghandi, practice makes perfect and perfection gets you a date. (:

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Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

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