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Dating Advice Video #7 : The Magic Rule Of Three

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There are various methods of getting someone to do what you want, ranging from using the magic word “please” , to hiring an assassin to threaten to kill the person unless he complies to your wishes. Two extremely common practices depending whether you’re in playground disney or in North Korea. Anyway, regardless of the point of origin, here is one technique that is universally applicable in helping you convince someone to do what you wnat. I call this technique : “The Rule Of Three”.

But first, let me explain to you this technique.

If you noticed, almost everything we do in our lives come in threes, for example it’s “Ready, set, go!” , “3, 2, 1 fire!” , the traffic light has threes colors, green, orange and red. And then there’s the holy trinity, Father, Spirit, Son. All in all, our lives are filled with threes, resulting in the subconscious association of the number three as being right. Yup, two seems one too little and four seems one too many. Three seems just right.

With this knowledge in mind, how can we use this to our advantage and.. take over the world? *evil laughter*. Well, okay, let’s not jump to taking over the world just yet, we’ll get to that later. Let’s start with attempting to win an argument with your girlfriend or boyfriend first.

First off, you should phrase your points in threes, instead of giving one single argument on why watching Twilight is bad, like “I don’t like Edward Cullen”, present three points instead, like “I don’t like Edward Cullen”, “I don’t support the abuse and use of steroids as seen in Jacob Black” and “Guys should never use glitter on themselves”. There you go, sounds much more convincing and persuasive eh? (:

Well, besides the additional 2 points, the fact that there were three reasons provided instead of two is a huge additional bonus in persuading your girlfriend to not watch the latest release of Eclipse with you. icon razz Dating Advice Video #7 : The Magic Rule Of Three

Now, this “Rule Of Three” technique can really be used for anything, from getting your way out of a bad movie, to convincing your parents to buy you a pet cheetah (still working on the points for this one). So forget your favorite number 7, 11, 13, 18.05..?! Your favorite number from now on should be the number 3, yes, the magic number 3. Cheers (:

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Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

Dating Advice Video #6 : How To Get Someone To Do What You Want


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This video teaches you how to use the psychological powers behind the ‘either, or’ principle to get someone to do what you want (:

So, how do you get someone to do what  you want? I know, the first two things that come into mind is bribing them with an infinite supply of white chocolates and approaching a witch to get some black magic cast on them – extremely common, don’t worry about it. Anyway, today i’ll be teaching you a method you can use to get someone to do what you want. Psyched up? Alright let’s go icon biggrin Dating Advice Video #6 : How To Get Someone To Do What You Want

Either, Or

I call this the ‘either, or’ technique. Sounds like a primary school english lesson yeah? Well, it’s not. This actually leans towards a psychology lesson more than anything else. Here’s how this works. Instead of asking someone, your girlfriend, boyfriend or uhm.. hamster, “Which movie do you wish to watch?” , which would leave you open to the potentially devastating and definitely life shortening movie choices like watching Twilight and Edward Cullen’s unbearable gayness for guys and i’m not being bias here, but the unappreciated goodness of transformers, for girls. Seriously, how can anyone not love Optimus Prime?! Anyway, the way you should be phrasing this is to supply your partner two choices which are both in your favor, for example, if you are up for action packed movies, the question you should be posing is “we could either watch Die Hard 4 or Transformers 2, which do you prefer?” Using this technique, you are actually eliminating all other choices that you don’t favor i.e non-action packed movies like Legally  Blonde or Revolutionary Road, and leaving your partner with 2 choices, Die Hard 4 and Transformers 2, which are both in your favor no matter the choice made.

Go Forth & Use Your Powers Wisely!

With this knowledge in mind, you can achieve your desirable choices ranging from anything like the type of restaurant you wish to eat at to which chapter of the Karmasutra you wish to practice (psst chapter 7!) icon biggrin Dating Advice Video #6 : How To Get Someone To Do What You Want Cheers to your newly acquired persuasive powers! (:

awesome Dating Advice Video #6 : How To Get Someone To Do What You Want

Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

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