Dating Rule #35 : How To Get What You Want With Your Loved One

By Desmond L., 26 March, 2010, 3,197 Comments

Here’s a technique i blogged about 2 months ago on successfully persuading your loved one that died out because of the lack of audience then, but now that i have a much bigger audience (yay ), i shall highlight to you all how you can use a certain technique to get your way with your loved one or your date most of the time, whether picking a movie to watch or going to a restaurant you prefer.

TRANSFORMERS! NO, P.S. I LOVE YOU!

Perhaps at one point of time you had a similar argument with your loved one or with your date. Well, today, my loyal readers, i’m going to share with you a secret that would solve that dilemma, or rather, win you that debate without losing t.v. rights for the next few days to your loved one. What is it you may ask? Well, it’s a simple way of rephrasing your question which has monumental impacts on it’s effects.

Either, Or

Huh? I don’t get it.

Don’t worry, let me explain it to you, the way the “Either, Or” tactic works is that it narrows down the choices your loved one has to just two choices, both of which would be in your favor, if you choose them rightly. This eliminates the other 1 million movie choices they have whether it’s Die Hard or Marley and Me to just two choices, which both you wouldn’t mind going to.

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For example, instead of asking,”What movie would you like to watch?” and giving your loved one a chance to reply something you wouldn’t want to watch, you could alter the sentence to “Would you like to catch either Transformers or Terminator?”. This would hugely tilt the chances in watching either show to your favor. Let me remind you, this wouldn’t work 100% of the time, but it definitely increases your chances hugely when used.

This tactic can be used in a whole host of other scenarios, from choosing the restaurant of your choice to letting you either catch the afternoon football show of the evening one (contrary to not watching anything at all, we guys would grab at anything yeah?). So, use wisely and tell me the good news! (Or the bad news of course) Cheers!