Alright! My sincere apologies for the long break i took from blogging on this website, it was largely because i was tremendously busy with my work in the army, of which i’ll be officially completing my term in less than 3 weeks so i’m much more free now. Anyway, i would like to kick start the launch of this website once again with this wonderful little guest post by Tiersa Buckley.

It speaks of how we should not always aim for all the boxes in our checklist to be checked when searching for the perfect man and how we should reevaluate our criterias and aims. For guys, you might be interested in this post : How To Be The Perfect Guy. Cheers!

Note : If any of you wish to write in (and i advice you to) on your views on certain aspects of relationships and dating, don’t hesitate to contact me here!

Can We All Get An A-Man?

A sad and sometimes pathetic statistic shows that each minute in this country women are praying to find Mr. Right, Mr. Right now or even one that’s willing to set aside his beer and turn off the game to listen to her feelings.  I’m talking about an A+ man that has fine tuned his washboards, mows your lawn without a shirt on a regular basis and takes out the trash with such finesse it makes you want to swoon.
Yes, we women want the ultimate man who will fill our every need and feeding us a cluster of grapes while we put our feet up doesn’t hurt either.  Well girls, these days you’re lucky to find one that wears attractive tightie whities and doesn’t call his mother every 5 minutes for her approval on everything under the sun.

Eventually, praying for a good man will hurt your knees not to mention your pride, so stand up and stop dreaming about the perfect man because he doesn’t exist.  These gentlemen you seek are few and far between so stop ticking off your criteria list when dining with a blind date. The biggest risk you face these days with dating is finding someone who is willing to look past your imperfections as well.  We all have flaws, so look past his unmatched clothes or unruly hair and get down to the business at hand.  While sexual chemistry is a very important part of any relationship it is not always the end all be all.
On the other hand, you don’t need to choose a guy who would rather be at home trimming his toenails or talking to his buddies via his fancy new cell phone during a date.  Women are sexual beings who crave affection and attention. We need men who can answer the call to arms when we require being wrapped up in them or just want to be playful and wrestle.

If your heart races when you set eyes on him and you don’t need to squeeze him into your busy schedule like a dog you have to walk on your lunch hour; then it just might be true love.  Overanalyzing his personality traits can set you into a tailspin and sometimes stop you from finding a diamond in the rough.  Rough around the edges and just waiting to be polished can sometimes be a great thing and you might just find his true potential is striving to make you happy.

Tiersa Buckley is a creative writer for datingsite.org and datingonline.net and has published many humourous articles that showcases the quirky side of the wonderful world of online dating.

I sincerely hope you all like the articles and once again, if any of you wish to write in (and i advice you to) on your views on certain aspects of relationships and dating, don’t hesitate to contact me here!

Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.