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Dating Advice Video #2 : How To Be The Perfect Guy

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Once again, i realized that googling “how to be the perfect guy” returns horrible results like “cheer her up”, “don’t rush into sex”, “be a gentleman”. I mean seriously, that has to be the most commonsensical nonsensical (had to use the two words together icon biggrin Dating Advice Video #2 : How To Be The Perfect Guy ) i’ve ever heard! Thus, i decided to upload my own video on my take on what i believe the perfect guy is (or lacks) – in 3 points. Now, i don’t want to rant on forever here, but a few changes i’ve made since my first video is to have a better backdrop and i added subtitles for anyone who couldn’t understand/decipher my Singaporean accent! icon biggrin Dating Advice Video #2 : How To Be The Perfect Guy Anyway, you can always discuss more about this video in the dedicated section of the forum here, or you can simply head over to the forum and chat with me, since i’m most active there (; Last but not least, do subscribe to my youtube channel to get more constant updates -winks.

note : view past written version on how to be the perfect guy here.

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Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

Dating Rule #53 : Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys

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Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys

You’ve seen it in the movies – girls falling for the bad guys in movies, for the drug dealers, for the school haters and for the vampires. Well, the underlying reason behind this behavior primarily is because of human’s need to rebel. To take a walk near the dark side and for some, to take a walk TO the dark side. And since society paints the perfect man as a well dressed, neat cut, stable job holding non-vampire, the complete opposite is what attracts us, mainly skull designed, medusa-haired, drug syndicate Edward Cullens. BUT, there’s a type of boys, a hybrid so to speak, that sweeps girls off their feet and stakes every Edward Cullen there is.

The Hybrid

Despite the natural inclination to want all that is bad, girls have a more practical side to them too. Basically – they want a certain status and assurance in their men. To be assured that they would be well provided and not live off grass (mix it with ketchup and it’s kinda tasty) in the future. Summing up – they want a men who can provide and ain’t all bad. So, this is how the hybrid is born.

The hybrid is a mix between the good and the bad, like chicken and broccoli (i’m hungry you see). The hybrid will be the man who’s not all good, yet not all bad. While he has this mohawk and have skulls hanging from his neck, he would also be an oxford graduate, while he may curse and swear at the world, when he’s with his mom he protects her and loves her unconditionally, and while he walks with an air of arrogance, he dresses up professionally. It’s this kind of person that is known as the hybrid and simply melts women’s hearts.

The Explanation

The explanation behind this is fairly simple, the hybrid combines the need and wants of any girl – the bad boy image with the good boy qualities. Usually it’s that way round, it’s hardly the bad boy qualities with the good boy image. Combining the best of both worlds, this leave us with the hybrid, a person that satisfies the needs and wants of any girl.

Start Remodeling

Yup, start remodeling people.  If you’re a goody two shoes, go and inject a dose of badass into yourself, and if you’re a badass already, go inject a dose of harry-potter-goodness into yourself and with just the right dosage and balance, you’ll be hot property -winks.

Anyway, i’ll be spending a lot more time in the forum so to have a personal word with me or if you have any questions ranging from your affairs of the heart to why do they call it a building when it’s already built, do find me at The Dating Rule Book’s Forum.

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Yours sincerely,
Desmond L.

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